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writes:My boyfriend and I broke-up and he claims he doesn't want to talk it over to see if we can come to terms with what is wrong. He has told me he wanted forever after, but is not willing to discuss our problems in the relationship. I have been just keeping myself busy and try not to dwell on it, but I do love him and miss him. What should I do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): I definitely understand what you mean. It's really hard when someone you love doesn't try as hard as you do to fix things. Sometimes you feel as though they can't want to fix things as much as you want to.
But it's probably not the case, don't worry. It sounds like he really does like you a lot and care about you.
I think it's quite common with guys, you just need to let them have some time to think, and once they have had their time, they will talk. Show him that you respect him and don't hassle him too much. He will talk soon enough, you just need to be patient. Some guys are just like that.
I hope everything turns out okay, I understand how hard it is to keep yourself busy not thinking about it while he works it out.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): He's made it perfectly clear to me.
He said he wanted forever after, but that he doesn't want to try to fix things. This means he doesn't actually want forever after, or he just doesn't want forever after with you.
If he's not willing to work on the relationship, he's not worth your tears and sadness. You'll find someone who is willing to try to fix things or settle arguments and live peacefully, and that person just doesn't sound like him.
Best of luck!
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