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*Katy_Did_
writes:So, this isn't really a question. But I'll go for it anyway.As of late, I've been feeling pretty down about men. The reasons being I have somehow started to convince myself that all they want is sex and that they will lie and manipulate to get it. I've started to wonder if the nice things they do are just to get into our pants... These are all things I DON'T want to believe. And quite honestly, in my right mind don't believe to be true. And trust me, I know I sound like a total man hater when I say those things. I want to be overly accepting of everyone. I want to believe there is good in everyone. I'm tired of looking at the people in a negative light. So, that being said I'd really like to hear from the men about a moment when you really appriciated your girlfriend, did something nice for her or just something you really love about her. If you're single, make it a moment when you really felt you did something great for another person. It could be anyone: your family, a friend. Be genuine and honest. And girls, tell me basically the same thing. Tell me something great about your guy, something he has done for you or just what you love about him. And again, if you're single, something that you have done for someone else that you felt good about. This of course can be reversed if you are not straight:)Everyone feel free to answer! I'm up for hearing lots of happy stories right now:) Reply to this Question
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reader, _Katy_Did_ +, writes (2 September 2010):
_Katy_Did_ is verified as being by the original poster of the question These are really great stories:) They made me smile. Thank you guys for shraring!
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reader, mrvhappy  +, writes (1 September 2010):
Hi,
The problem is that you have been with a boy...not a REAL MAN!!..Dont forget @ yr age..boys are full of hormones and at thier sexual peak.
I recently met & thanked my ex for the love and support that she gave me many yrs ago when I was going through a very bad period in my life.( & No I wasnt trying to get her into bed!!)
She kissed me and hugged me like a lover!! (like old times) and didnt want to let go...unfortunately there are complications!!
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (1 September 2010):
 I used to start work really early so I'd leave little sticky notes everywhere that she might gradually find throughout the day, each one saying one nice thing I liked about her. One time I literally plastered her mirror with about twenty of them because she was feeling a bit insecure about how I felt about her the night before.
Sex is awesome, but not everything nice that we do is to get it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): I'm 22 but still kinda on edge about driving because I don't do it often. Last weekend, suggested we drive to see friends in in South Philadelphia. This is the first time I ever drove there, and I knew I had to parallel park along the narrow street near their home. This was going to be my first real parallel parking experience. And boy was it an experience. I caused a large backup behind me as I struggled and paniced to pull in. Honking and yelling ensued. Did my guy panic? Did he criticize? Nope. He was my rock. He coached me into the space and told me to nevermind the screaming "pansies" behind me. I did it in about 5 minuets, which I feel guilty about for the folks behind me, but I did it. And his level head pulled me through. When I pulled the keys out of the ignition I was kinda still shaking and in a nervous huff. He was grinning ear to ear at how much of a mess I was. We smiled, I apologized, and hugged. He is my rock, and always keeps calm and helps me when I need it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2010): My partner has waited three years (and is still waiting) until I am ready to have sex. I am a virgin and he is not and he doesn't pressure me he doesn't make me feel bad about it. In fact, he respects it.
He makes me cups of tea whenever I want one too! Which can be great when you are mid way through a book and cant be bothered to get up.
As for myself, I was on the bus once and my backpack had a small bear keyring on it. A little boy sat next to me and kept looking at it and once tried to touch it but his mum batted his hand away. Before I got off the bus, I turned to him and said '' Can you do me a favour? Can you look after this bear for me, he needs a really good home, can you do that'' He nodded his little head. I handed him the bear, got off at my stop and felt like I was some kind of fairy or something LOL. It made me feel great and still does over five years later.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (1 September 2010):
Last weekend my girlfriend was called into work on Saturday, after having worked 12-14 hour days for a week. So, naturally she was not happy. When she told me she was coming home, I ran a bath for her, set out some of these vanilla candles she has, cooked her dinner and then let her fall asleep on me on the sofa. And you'll be happy to know that not one of those things was done because I wanted sex from her. I just did it because she needed to be spoilt a bit.
I promise not all guys are after just getting into your pants all the time. There are a few that are, but not as many as it seems.
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