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writes:so this is my first year at this college - im a sophomore transfer. i met this kid, who is a junior, and he is way too cool. at first i thought he liked me but im fairly certain he is just incredibly friendly. which means he knows everyone. which means he always has something to do. he also lives off campus but is on campus a lot. i drank with him on saturday and we bonded over music and stuff like that and on the way back i totally couldnt make the hike back up because i was nervous to begin with and substances make my anxiety shoot way up. he helped me a ton, i was a stupid drunk mess. i went to smoke with him sunday night and a ton and i mean a ton of people were there and i knew none of them and it was dark in the forest so i was introduced and what not but i just hung around him and like didnt want to be clingy but frankly, i probably was. but he was talking to me a lot. and i dont speak when high. my mouth is always shut, im such an introvert. so he's like taken me under his wing and i am very much that type of helpless person. but he would always say 'see you tomorrow then yeah?' which is so much more definite than 'see you later' right? he always invited me everywhere and even when he had plans he asked what i wanted to do THAT DOESNT MAKE SENSE. but anyway, my question is.. should i be like hey are you on campus blah blah im bored i just dont know and i dont want to seem like i dont want to hang out cause i left early sunday night. and he is having a party saturday but its way off campus and the only girls i know with a car are going to the shore. ahhh i just want it to be saturday though. i hate having anxiety/analyzing everything it makes everything so much worse. i just dont know what to say. and i need a legit reason to text him because in these situations, everyone is just like "just do it! just text him" but i cant, i really need a subtle clever way. ay.
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reader, petina1  +, writes (3 September 2010):
 Just text him and say 'I can come to your party but I'd need a lift, is anyone going my way?' He may then suggest someone to bring you over. Hope this helps.
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