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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:hey, i really need some help with how i can stop fancying my boss.the thing is i keep having fantasies of sleeping with him. he's just under twice my age which makes it illegal, all the more so as i'm not old enough to give consent. also he has a girlfriend. i know in my mind that it can't happen but i really fancy him. he's not overly good looking, if anything i'd deem him as ugly, but we really connect, when we talk he talks to me like an equal and we have deep meaningful conversations, light hearted conversations, and a little bit of witty, slightly flirtatious banter. he also welcomes me into his house (theres always someone else there that i know before people accuse him of grooming) he and his girlfriend have often given hints into their love life, which i don't mind, i'm very open and comfortable with ppl talking about sex, it's how i was raised. but when his girlfriend says that he's rather good, it often makes me think. i know he's got a rather big 'package' as it often bulges in his trousers (not that i make a habit of looking!)so obviously i think about what it would be like to sleep with him. i respect him greatly, as he's not only my boss but my teacher too. (i help him teach other students, and he will focus on teaching me how to run a school like business and obviously, what he's teaching the other students) so because of this agreement, i spend alot of time in his company.i've given this background info so that you can understand the possition i'm in. i can't spend less time with him as i have to work, either that or i can no longer train. please offer any advice on how i can get over this rediculous fancy.sorry for how long this isanon
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 September 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthankyou for the advice.
i in no way intend to have sex with him, that is why i posted this problem. as you said i'm underage for starters. i knew from the moment i had this fancy that it wasn't going to happen, but i couldn't get the thought out of my head. i'm also not trying to get closer to him. although with what i posted it may look like it. when he invites me to his house i think it's more a case of good manners than wanting my company.
anyway i will stop before it sounds like i'm having a go, as this is not my intention.
thankyou for the advice, it's much apreciated :)
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