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writes: i am dating this 21 year old man.we have been together for about 8 months but it was in secret any ways most people know i am seeing him but there was a point when people called me a liar etc.they also said that he was to good for me.well i am asking ?do you think he will leave just because of what people say?this is going to sound really sad okay because you don't know me and all but do you think it would be disrespectful for me to want to do the deed with my bf?please help me and give me advice please
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (1 December 2010):
 If you're totally positive that you want to sleep with him and you know that you are in a loving, committed relationship then there shouldn't be too much of a problem. youngandrestless is right that you should think about it and about her mum. Some people are able to forget it, but a lot of people, especially women, will always think "i slept with you" every time they see the guy, and it can be a bit awkward.
Be careful, make sure that you trust him and you are completely in love with him.
Good luck
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reader, youngandrestless  +, writes (1 December 2010):
 hey sweetheart i know what your going through must be hard. but i first need you to ask yourself why were you dating in secret? is it because your parents will be upset? i understand how that can be trust me. i know you feel like an adult who can make your own decisions about your body and your life but i would encourage you to take more time before you become intimate with him, especially if your a virgin. your still quite young and have lots of time ahead of you to make this decision. maybe take your relationship to the next level by brining it out in public, meet his friends and family and let him do the same with yours. wait until you really know how you feel about him before you take this step. believe me you will always remember your first, and you dont want to regret it. my mom slept with her first boyfriend at 14, convinced she was going to marry him, 8 years down the road he married her best friend. she may not have feelings for him any more but she still thinks of it every time she sees him. its not something you can take back. just think on it for a while.
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