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writes:Im 17 years old male!my girlfriend live in my country but im studying in Canada.i wanna have sex with my girlfriend in this year when i wanna go back to my country but my girlfriend is virgin and I dont know that is it right to have sex with her or no? Reply to this Question
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reader, A Doctor  +, writes (30 November 2010):
NO, she will be someone's wife someday. Do you want your future wife being banged by an assortment of boys in her youth. Take a cold shower and leave her alone.
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reader, k_c100  +, writes (30 November 2010):
 Well does your girlfriend want to have sex? Have you spoke to her about it? Because if you are both over the legal age of consent, and you BOTH want to have sex - then there is no problem with you doing so. However, you need to find out if your girlfriend is ready for sex and actually wants to have sex.
Assuming you love your girlfriend and are happy with her, then you will want to make sure she loses her virginity when she is ready and comfortable with doing so. She will remember her first time forever so it is important that she does have sex for the first time when it feels right for her - so you have to respect that and if she needs more time, then be patient. If you love her, then you will wait as long as she needs before you have sex and you wont try and pressure her in any way.
Also, have you thought about contraception? You need to have condoms to prevent STD's, and your girlfriend needs to be on birth control to prevent pregnancy. So when you talk to your girlfriend about possibly having sex and how she feels about it - also mention birth control and then she can visit the doctor and get this arranged.
So just talk to your girlfriend, find out how she feels about losing her virginity and if she is ready or not. Discuss contraception - and then take it from there.
I hope this helps and good luck!
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (30 November 2010):
 I do not know what the legal age is in Canada but nonetheless, assuming you are over it, Do not act on this urge unless you are both absolutely ready. She is a virgin and she has to willingly give this to you, so whatever you feel, be sure that it is strong enough to be sure. Talk to her.
I hope that helps.
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