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writes:Ok so me and my gf were together for a year and a half and we had a baby together. We broke up for about six months because we didnt trust each other and just recently got back together. Well things were going great till i found out she was lying to me about talking to the guy she dated while we were broken up. i told her she could talk to anyone she wants, just not to lie to me about it and she did. So i told her she cant talk to him anymore if she wanted me to trust her. Well, this past weekend she went to the beach and she hardly talked to me the whole time and her phone was always dead, so i got suspicious. And because i got suspicious of her, she got suspicious of me. She asked for my myspace password which i gladly gave her, cause i have nothing to hide. Well, she went back thru all the stuff when we were broken up and saw tht i talked to gay guys and flipped out and left me and called me a fag. I used to be bi curious but im not like that anymore. i havent liked guys in a long time but she keeps tellin me that she cant be with a bi guy and I keep telling her that im not like that but she dont believe me and she told me when she was angry that at the beginning she was dating me and her ex at the same time. Then she took it back and said she was just mad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2010): It sounds like its better for you and the kid, to break up with her for good.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2010): Its hard for a lot of people to date bisexual people. There is always that fear that someday that person may not be capable of fulfilling your needs. If you were just talking to the gay guys then that's not a good reason for her to talk so harshly to you. Unless there was more than casual talk. Either way, I think you should try to understand that its hard for people to get over someones past. If you think this girl is worth it, then support her. When she feels suspicious then answer her questions sincerely. It seems to me that the relationship has trust issues coming from both sides as well. Trust issues are one of the most common relationship problems that requires time and patience. At some point every couple have faced trust issues. Stay strong for each other if this is the girl you want to be with. As for the ex factor. That can be tricky. You need to understand that whether we want to face it or not exes were a part of everyones life. it wasn't right for her to tell you something to deliberately hurt you unless there is more to this story which I'm assuming there is. Just remember that these things take time.
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