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*riana_2011
writes:I met this guy we will call him ...... bill. i met him a while ago but we started to hangout again here a few weeks ago. Were always together but me him and his best friend and one of my friends all got drunk together the other night. I really like bills friend and me and bill and his friend have hung out befor. But now after the drinking i kind of slept with bill then his friend. and now my friend is mad because she wants to be with him but he dont want her and now bill is mad one second and fine the next and bills friend and me just dont no what to do. Bill says that his friend thinks im a whore. I dont no what to make of it thought because me and bills friend texrt all the time. I hate drama i just need to no what to do.
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (30 November 2010):
 Hun, you have put yourself in a tough spot.:(
You may want to relax on the drinking if it leads you into situations like this, you may want to spend some time alone( BE SINGLE FOR A WHILE) to re evaluate yourself.Bill is acting hot and cold because he might be having a hard time dealing with his feelings about what went on. If Bill was "the one", I don't think you would have acted the same so just break up with him because you 2 are obviously not commited to each other, the other guy either used you or had sex with you because you BOTH wanted to have some fun...........he is not interested in anything more then that based on what you said he told Bill. Totally forget about him and avoid any contact with him. Give your friend some time to calm down and then appologize for what went on between you and her guy.
Hope this helps a bit hun.........HUGS!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (30 November 2010):
 I love how people who "hate drama" have a nack for creating it! Nothing against you OP, but that cracked me up.
Hmmm, what to do, what to do... Choose who you want and go with that. Here's the thing. You've just ruined a bunch of relationships, so I don't see this working out well no matter who you choose. If either Bill or his friend want to be with you, this will cause a rift between them. Most likely, "Bro's before Ho's" will come into play and you'll get neither. Your friend also is mad at you and she should be. You invite her out, she meets a guy she decides she likes and you go and fuck him. As if one guy wasn't enough for you...
The only thing you can do now is deal with the fallout you've brought on yourself. Make better decisions in the future to avoid these situations.
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