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writes:Okay, I've liked this guy for months now, and I'm positive he likes me back. We have a few classes together and the same extra curriculars, and we're pretty good friends. Here's why I think he likes me:I always seem to catch him staring at me.He voluntarily sits next to me in class.His torso and feet usually face me (body language much?)Whenever we're talking, he always seems to try to casually mess with his hair and touches his face (unconscious body language, right?)He's always teasing me.He tries to make me laugh (sometimes in inappropriate ways!)Okay, I think you get it. He likes me. The thing is though that this has been going on for months and he still hasn't asked me out. For the first time last week we had a really long text conversation, and now we text little things regularily, but he's sending some mixed signals. Like he'll occasionally randomly take a really long time to text back, or he randomly acts like there's nothing between us when we're with a group of friends. What gives with the mixed signals and will he ever ask me out??
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reader, der_zyniker +, writes (30 November 2010):
He's just unsure of himself. He doesn't know if you are interested and I think he is just confused as to what to do. He may also be afraid of being turned down. When he is with a group of friends he probably acts like there is nothing between you two because he doesn't want your friends to figure out that he likes. My only suggestion is to try to be direct with him. Try to talk to him about this. If you like him that much don't wait around feeling sorry for yourself because he hasn't asked you out. Be proactive and ask him out. That shows that you are independent and confident in yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2010): Chances are this guy is just shy. Yeah, ask him out for coffee or something. Shy guys need to ease in a bit to the dating scene...and this would help. No doubt in my mind he'd say no. He clearly is interested and thats great u point out body language...it is def important for signs. Good luck.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (30 November 2010):
 If you think he likes you then why don't you take charge and ask him out yourself? Don't you think if he liked you, he would have asked you out months ago? Just a thought.
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