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*ombiefan
writes:I honestly do not like cum. If i look at it, taste, feel or even think about it too much, i gag and feel like i'm going to vomit. I've always pushed past this feeling of nausea, and just dealt with it, i've pretended that it didn't bother me. But it just gets worse. I told my boyfriend about it, i even asked my mom for advice (which was uncomfortable, to say in the least). And i felt terrible when i talked to him about it, he was upset, and it made me feel like a complete jerk. He tried to play it off as being no big deal, but i know his feelings got hurt, and that he probably saw it as me rejecting him. Now, don't get me wrong, it's not like i don't enjoy giving him oral sex, it's just.... i have a issue with cum. Now i've heard that if he eats certain things it tastes better, but i don't know what i can do, as far getting over my issue with it. Because honestly, i don't care if it tastes bad, i just want to be able to think about it/have it on me/see it, without getting physically sick to my stomach.And i'm asking for advice on this because, i want to be able to do the things he wants and that make him feel good. Without having to worry about barfing during it. ):
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reader, Trac675 +, writes (30 November 2010):
 Honey, you are NOT alone. It's a texture thing for a lot of women. If your bf wants to get "upset" at cause u don't like it, tell him tough shit and ask him, "then why dont YOU swallow it? You want me to..." lol he doesnt need to get upset at you, thats not right. So don't feel bad...I did puke once..on him
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2010): Thats a tough problem, for you. And i am not going to suggest you do anything that makes you feel uncomfortable.
But i always think of it as salty egg white.
That took away any power of the cum to bother me.
And earlier, when i was trying to deal with your issue, i asked him to ejaculate on to my nipples and tits and my husband loves that still. It turned him on and he still likes spread it over me with his hands, and then he massages and licks my torso until every drop of cum has gone.
Though now i also like swallowing cum now too. But at first i did not.
Just take it slowly, and make sure you are comfortable with where it goes.
And if your partner has lots of frequent sex then the cum will be more watery.
And i must admit i prefer it watery!
And i object if he's eaten garlic shrimp, since i hate the taste of both.
Whereas a big long gap between his last
emission will mean it is thick and white.
Maybe try some alternative sites to your
throat? Or use a condom so that it is contained, while you work out which solution best suits you?
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify  +, writes (30 November 2010):
 maybe you have associated cum in your head with bad STD's and now you see it in a similar vein to boogies/faeces/vomit as a disease spreader.
because naturally a reaction of disgust appears to things we know to be carriers of disease.
maybe that's what the problem is...?
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