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writes:i've been going out with my boyfriend for 6 months, he is madly in love with me but i just have never felt the spark in the relationship. its a secret from my parents and is just too hard trying to find ways around them and im sick of disappointing him when i cant hang out. hes become one of my best friends and i really really dont want to hurt him but its time to end the relationship becuase its not fair to him keeping this going. im scared to break his heart, im the only person he trusts. help...?
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (30 November 2010):
 It has to be done and in situations like this, I am afraid there is nothing you can do to avoid hurting him somehow. But honesty and gentleness is the lesser of two evils. Sit him down and talk to him about this. He will be hurt but he should at least appreciate the fact that you were honest about all of it and that you were at least trying to be gentle about it. Good luck.
I hope that helps.
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