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writes: My girlfriend just got back from California and I kind of wanted to make her feel good about being back. i also wanted to turn a small welcome back kiss, into... something more. I guess I'm asking for a list of things that would turn you on... Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2010): every girl is different... thoughtful is always a good start; flowers, dinner, something romantic planned at home. anything to let her know you've been thinking about her. if she's not into it, don't push, that's a turn off. for me, making out is great, i love having my neck sucked on and hearing my boyfriend breathing in my ear. feeling a little helpless is good for me too, but not so much that i feel i've lost control and have no choice in the matter anymore.
be always mindful of what she seems to like or dislike; by the noises she makes or her actions, play around and i'm sure you'll find what turns her on. best of luck.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (30 November 2010):
That's going to very from woman to woman. I wouldn't necessarily jump her bones the day she gets back, unless she totally initiates it. Be sweet and romantic..have a nice bouquet of flowers in your hand, a nice dinner planned out, a bubble bath together followed by some snuggling, possibly a massage and sex if she suggests it. All of that says "I miss you, welcome home".
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2010): One thing that turns me on about a man, regardless of his looks or any other attributes is... confidence in himself, combined with genuine affection for me... this translates into a secure man who is secure about his love for me.... it makes me feel sexy, feminine and safe and protected all at the same time... not even my husband can do this, he is jealous as hell, but if a man has that, it is priceless...
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