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*andygirl7283
writes:Is age gap the real problem?I met someone online and we chatted for a few months and he visited me in my place. We started to date and I decided to stay in his place so I won't have a hard time going to work in the morning. We had great sex and we like each other. But he is worried about our age gap. I will turn 28 and he is 52 years old and he is worried too much about our age gap. He told me that he should better settle down with the girl who is older because he is afraid that his family will disown him. I told him that age isn't a problem but he said it a big problem and afraid of others might think. So he told me he will try to meet the girl again that he met in HK who is 38. Now I don't know what to do, I'm having a hard time to move on...
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reader, candygirl7283 +, writes (2 December 2010):
candygirl7283 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks so much for the help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2010): Yes sadly the old man jut wanted the sex and now he is not man enough to admit it.
Save yourself more pain and walk away with your head high.
LoveGirl
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reader, candygirl7283 +, writes (1 December 2010):
candygirl7283 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks so much for the advice. He will fly back to hongkong tomorrow to meet the girl... Sigh... painful for me...
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reader, soon567  +, writes (30 November 2010):
Unless something goes wrong with him he would always be able to father a child:
http://www.judiciaryreport.com/images/larry_king_and_family_-4-14-10.jpg
This is a picture of Larry King and his younger kids….
It’s not that he can’t be a loving caring dad or a good husband because he can be, He just don’t want it with her. His family want accept you at 28, yet accept her at 38. You need to stop him before he finish the lie. They will disown him you said. Go ahead you have my permission to cuss his ___ out. That got to be the worst crop of bull I seen posted here.
Tell him to man up and tell you that as a woman you need the truth. You were just a quick lay and he wanted this woman along. If people were more honest they probably could still get what they want without fooling their mate.
I look at Geronimo advice to you and I read your post, I feel that your guy only wanted one thing and he got it, now he wants to move on.
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reader, Geronimo +, writes (30 November 2010):
 At 28 years old you have your whole life ahead of you. His is half over. He's not going to want to father children at his age and when your 40 he's gonna be 64. Turn gramps looseand find someone a little closer. He'll be better off and so will you. Trust me Ive dated 14 years older and realized that I want kids someday well guess what ,she wasn't willing or able.
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