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writes:Im getting conflicting messages from my girlfriend.We have been together for 4 years and for past 3 she has slowly, bit by bit, distanced herself from me.She tells me she loves me, but only when I ask. However her body language tells me something else. When I go to touch her she pulls away, if I go to kiss her she pulls away, and sex is like being with a lifeless dummy. We used to kiss passionately, now all i get is a peck on the cheek and thats what she calls a kiss!Please help Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2010): Sorry, she is just not that in to you anymore.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (30 November 2010):
 Step one should be to discuss with her what you're feeling. To me it sounds like she's not happy. It could be something you're doing, or it could be all her. It's hard to say, but if the change has been gradual, then I wonder why you haven't addressed it sooner.
Talk to her.
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reader, christyyyf +, writes (30 November 2010):
 Honestly i am a women and i do this to my boyfriend now.. and it's only because i don't want to be with him but i don't have the courage to break his heart and leave him again..
i'm sorry and i know its cruel what she is doing to you but it's probably because she doesn't wanna hurt you!
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reader, Red591 +, writes (30 November 2010):
 Well you are not going to like this but.....my ex acted the same way for about six days before I caught text messages from the bitch he was cheating on me with. I knew deep down that it meant something was wrong but I never thought it would be that. Now it seems so obvious. I can't say for sure that this is what is going on but I we had just bought a truck and went on vacation and been together a little under two years when he suddenly cheated on me. I threw him out and he is off with her now. They will get a dose of karma sooner or later but Im telling you right now that she has mentally checked out of your relationship. Nothing you can really do about it I'm afraid. There is a chance that it is something else (i.e. pregnancy, depression) but there is a higher chance that she has already moved on in her mind and waiting for you to get sick of her and break it off. I would demand an explanation form her. People don't just change like that for no reason.
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