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writes:please help i am so confused and i really dont know what to do. i met this guy a few months ago at a club he spilled a drink on me and i danced with his best friend few days after that i saw that he was at my sisters house and i also found out that he is my sisters husbands cousin i also found out that they were talking about me and he was interested in me. few weeks ago after my sisters wedding i saw this his mom was calling me her daughter in law and that i was going to be heres since i am the last one to get married but it was all a joke. Then the same day night came and my sister and her husband were throwing a little party before all the guests went to their home town i told my cousin that i liked him and pointed at the guy they all embarrassed me calling him to come over it got a little awkward so we went outside and talked for two hours at the end of the night i gave him my number.. the next day he texted me and we texted back and forth he then asked me out i said yes..but i canceled at the last minute..then we kept texting and he asked me out again i said yes and i promised not to bail..as days went by he hasnt texted me and the night to when we were supposed to go out came and he never called and i didnt want to call him either because i didnt want him to think i'm annoying..few days later after the date night fail number two i texted him and told him about the date night fail he said he forgot about it and went camping with friends.we texted that night again and are supposed to hang out again this saturday..i feel like he isnt into me anymore? he told me he was gonna text me today and he still hasnt i'm scared that i am falling for him harder then he is falling for me! what do i do? is there a chance that he is at least a little into me?? please help!?
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (3 June 2010):
He bailed out of you're date because you did it to him! it was pay back how childish and he is still acting childish, no don't run after him show him what he missed out on. by not even going there you know how you can learn a person is step back and don't crowd them and observe and watch how well you get to know a person and how could you forget you had a date and end up hanging w/ the guys (what ever) and if he truly did forget which i doubt then wow thats a blow 2 you. that you just slipped his mind! you know what i would do if he calls only if he calls tell him to go play mind games with some'one else that life is to short.GOOD LUCK!
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (3 June 2010):
 Oops sorry didn't read your age before I suggested wine and cheese. Make some muffins after all the way to a man's heart is through his stomach
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (3 June 2010):
I would think he bailed on you for that second date because you cancelled the first one and hurt his feelings. Go round to his house with a bottle of wine and some cheese and then go out to dinner together after that.
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reader, Charleybabes0811  +, writes (3 June 2010):
It's best to just try and hang out with him and see where it goes.
Trust me when i say that it's really difficult to push someone out when theyre in, so i wouldnt go all out and throw your whole heart into it all at once.
Be yourself, but dont get your hopes up as it could all end in tears. Be sure he's interested first.
Hang out on saturday, and read his body language. Do something casual and just get to know him :)
Hope i helped, and hope that it all works out.. Let me know :)
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