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writes:I have a girlfriend that I love a lot and would never heat on her. I've never even thought about it or anything like that. I feel guilty now if I watch porn, or masturbate thinking of someone else. Should I be feeling guilty or is it still relatively normal to be doing this? (I've never been in love before I met her). I don't watch it every day, and don't even masturbate every day. I don't really crave it either its just one in a while I'll do it. It is usually to somneone opposite of her (like bbw, older, even sometimes tranny). Should I be feeling guilty or is it nothing to really worry about?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2010): If you are feeling guilty, then don't do it. Why would someone continually do something that makes them feel guilty?? If you ignore these feelings, then that is when the disparity happens. If you are feeling guilty, it's a sign you are a good person and you should STOP. It would be like a fat person, who should be on a diet, stuffing a cream cake into their face, and then feeling guilty. Of course they do because they know they shouldn't be doing it. When we become more aware of what our feelings are telling us, I mean really get in tune with oneself, then that is when your spiritual journey will start my friend, good luck. Sorry to any fat people, that was the only analogy I could think of!!!!
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reader, person12345 +, writes (2 June 2010):
 It depends on whether she knows. If she knows and she's OK with it, then it's fine. If you hide it from her, then it's not. It's especially not OK if you lie about it. Lots of guys look at porn while in a relationship. But if you're feeling guilty about it, you should ask yourself why. I agree with the below poster too, why do you look at girls the opposite of what your girlfriend is? That seems a little weird. Are you not turned on by her?
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reader, SillyB +, writes (2 June 2010):
 Why are the girls in porn you watch opposite of what she is???
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reader, 2old4this +, writes (2 June 2010):
 Hey, no worries mate! Everythings fine. The only time I do it is when me girls not around either. It's normal.
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reader, sunnycomet  +, writes (2 June 2010):
 I don't think this is anything to worry about. This is normal and it sounds like you really care about her. She is lucky to have such a caring bf!
Good Luck!
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