How can I make her see that I am worth her love?

A male age 30-35, *ittleprince writes:

its been months, the last conversation with her was through text. the funny thing is the longest conversation we've had was also our last. It all began last summer when I saw her working at an apparel store,I didn't take much notice as my and my friend were just browsing. She was just another pretty face, and plus she looks older than us. months later, I'm suspended from school, so one day i decided to go to my friends lecture and when we were waiting for class to start she was at the door as well and our eyes met. I didn't say anything but I found her familiar. Fast forward two weeks, I decide since I might be taking Psych I might as well sit in but by the time i get to class every1 was gone, I thought since it took me so long to get to campus I might as well stay behind to see whats next, next thing I knew she walked through the door. I never took an interest in dating as i was preoccupied with enough. But she is special, I dont know what got in me but I just went for it. I pretended to be in her class, I didnt know what she was going to think if she found out that I was suspended. She said one thing I said another and the next thing I knew I wanted to be with her, only her. I left early that day without knowing that the olympic break was next week. And so after I went to 3 weeks of class but I didn't see her, i thought she dropped n I was a bit disappointed. I went on with my life as usual, until one week I decided to give it one last chance to check once more, and to my surprise she was there, except she has already met another girl. so here I am for the following weeks in a class I have already taken with her and another girl. After one class under the encouragement of a female friend I ask her out to the art gallery but she indirectly declines, leaving me heart broken, but I was determined to win her heart. I thought the other girl could help me but she told her that I've been lying about being in her class, and this ensued a quarrel by text. The following week I didnt show because i didn't know what to say, but under the encouragement of my closest friends I brought up the courage to explain myself, I even confessed to other lies like Being a preschool aide for an autistic child, I know it sounds terrible, but i was just tired of being the nice guy and she was definitely special enough and I didnt want to let her pass me by. we shook hands and she said we can still be friends. I was happy at the time because we could still be friends since she was seeing another boy. After I left that day I texted her three times, After the first 2 times I didn't get a reply, and I knew deep inside that we werent friends. I was heart broken. A month passes n I believe I have almost gotten over her but suddenly I get a text from her, but it was apparently not for me. I am pulled back to her. A month later I think I have had enough of being heartbroken, and I decide to force an answer from her, I tell her I love her, she tells me that love and friendship will not be possible. I tell her that I will pretend that she was just a dream and she thanks me. At times I will be able to put her behind me, but others... I am willing to do anything to be with her. I have a heart of gold and am very determined, I dont want to get over her, because if I choose to do so, then she will indeed be Just Another girl. And deep in my heart I believe I am no worse than those partying guys who go drinking and clubbing and having fun. What have they got that I dont? I choose a healthy life and I help people on a daily basis, How can I make her see that I am worth her love?

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