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*andy429
writes:My friend gave me this guys number and we started texting and talking.well now we have fallen in love but we have never met before. We talk and text every day. But i have to go through my mom just to talk to him and she is geting tiered of it. I love him so much and truley beleave he is the one for me. i have never felt this way before.We only get to talk for 20 to 30 mins every day and im starting to wonder if he is worth all of it. he tells me he loves me all the time.Dose it sound like he is worth it? he plans on moving to where i am in about 1 year and a half,
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reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (2 June 2010):
 In my experience, you can't truly love somebody that you've never met. You can love what you know about them through talking, but that's just one aspect of them out of many. You could meet them and then find that there are so many things about them that you don't love.
To TRULY love somebody you have to love them for who they are, warts and all, and right now you can't possibly know him entirely because you haven't met. I'm not trying to belittle your love for him, I'm merely trying to say that you love him as much as you possibly can without actually meeting him.
Once you do meet there'll be alot more about him to learn, regardless of how many deep and meaningful conversations you've had. Then if you still think you love him after viewing the whole package... then you probably are :)
Arrange to meet him already!!
Best of luck :)
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