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30-35,
anonymous
writes: What would you do with your crush if you only had one day left to spend with him? I won’t get to see him ever again. Just at my friends graduation party and I already told him I liked him. Is it wrong for me to still have feelings for him even though I know he will never talk to me again or hangout with me? He wasn’t the best guy friend I ever had but still I could never be mad at him. Plus this guy at work likes me. I can tell because he walked me to my car and said goodnight. Plus he always helps me at work so I get done and where ever I sit at break he always sits across from me. For little stuff like setting the dining room, he asks me to help him or says that I and he are going to do it. Sure I like my friend but the guy at work has liked me back actually. I lost my first boyfriend because we had nothing in common and he knew I liked the friend. Anyway it was a heartbroken breakup because the guy friend never wanted to be more so I lost a great boyfriend because of him. I still don’t know why I want to get his attention. I feel lost without my crush/guy friend. Its really hard seeing as I have only one more day left with him. Whats the best thing for me to do?
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (2 June 2010):
The one that says that you and him are going to do it? was he asking you are telling you? i don't know who he is but be sure of this he is one i would run from! and the other one just open your heart! and be honest how you feel you will never know if you don't. you might be suprised but don't get your hopes up respect his decision what ever it maybe just like he should respect yours!!
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reader, The Realist +, writes (2 June 2010):
Write down and plan out what you want to say to this guy before he leaves. Tell him how you feel that way you won't get the feeling that you never got to say good bye. In the past there has been so many times where I wished I would have said what i was thinking before the person left.
The best way to move on is to have a good closure with the person so that you can move on and don't dwell on the situation. this way you will both leave the situation wanting the other to be happy in life and it will help you move on to a new relationship.
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