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writes:i am 25 years old n my bf 23.its 2 years we are dating first 1.5 was like heaven i acted a bit childish and he was the one who did EVERYTHING to make me happy and after that time i realized his true love and its 6 months we have corrected our relation but every day he is getting further to me he keeps distance and with every single small conflict he says he wants to be alone and no more gf.i explained him too many times how sorry i am with the 1st year.he says he had never loved anyone more than me even loves me more than his mom and would never be so in love and so turned on by any other girl,he says i can't leave you so please you leave me because you are occupying all my life and my thoughts and my plans if i be without you i can prove better but now all my life is just thinking about you,he says its not our problem the problem is that he is just so abnormaly into me!!!!when we dont fight everything is fine but when we do he says this stuff.im living abroad and living without him is like hell for me we don't want to marry but i can't tolerate loneliness and can't let him go!and finding another bf in this country is impossible.im suffering please help me out! Reply to this Question
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reader, Auntie E  +, writes (3 June 2010):
 Oh honey let him go! The jig is up! You said so yourself "we don't want to marry but i can't tolerate loneliness and can't let him go!and finding another bf in this country is impossible."
WTF's up with that? You are 25 grow up and find another guy - stop keeping this poor soul on the line! Really..look at this situation - if this guy was your brother or very close friend - this is exactly what you would say to you. So stop what you are doing. Let him go!~Where are you anyway? Please send a private post if you want - not here to chastise just here to help - to see the truth - to cut through the nonsense - that's all. Ok?
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reader, Anishinaabe +, writes (3 June 2010):
 Well try for a little bit longer and if you don't feel right just end it and be friends with him.
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