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writes:Hello dear cupid. :) I've been a member for a while and never really posted, but reading all the good advice you've given I thought I'd give it a shot with a problem of mine. xDSo, I have a boyfriend whom I love and who says he loves me. We've been together for a little over a year, and while things have been slightly rocky lately, we had a great date last night and despite fights I still love him as much as I did to begin with. A problem I have in specific is jealousy when other girls get close to him. One namely being his ex. I've kept my mouth shut because I've made an ass out of myself before involving him talking to girls and I don't want him to think of me as some kind of controlling manipulator(I've had controlling boyfriends before - not nice!)This ex girlfriend of his; I've asked about her a little. They dated back in 2007. He claims they never so much as 'made out' together, mainly held hands and talked and went places together. She dumped him due to not wanting to have a long distance relationship when he went away to college (she was 15 at the time and I kind of don't blame her.)They just began keeping contact together somewhat recently, as she just got a facebook not long ago. As far as I know, they talk primarily on facebook. She'll comment on his things somewhat regularly and vise versa. She seems very friendly and even added me as a friend. This is the part that I feel like I might just be paranoid about and am afraid to say anything: she posted a status the other day saying "I think I'll always love you."Now I know she just recently had a bad breakup with a boyfriend and her posts afterward were similar for a while. But she's since been posting more cheerful things, and my boyfriend was all over this status and was commenting back and forth with her. Further snooping in his inbox and I found that they had emailed and he was trying to get her to get on instant messenger to chat.He swears he has no feelings for her and that he loves me. Is my paranoia getting the better of me, or does it seem like something fishy is going on?
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reader, Madalo 1  +, writes (2 June 2010):
It looks like old friends catching up.Nevertheless,id say keep your eyes open lest she snatches your man right under your nose!
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