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writes:me and my boyfriend are both virgins, and I happen to be very tight. we were talking about taking it hard but slow the first time so he doesn't hurt me. he said since we'll be going slow, he probably won't cum. how can I make him cum while going slow? I want him to feel really good too!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks :)
I've heard you can get pregnant from precum too? were sure to use protection. any other tips?
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (2 June 2010):
 Stimulating his penis will make him cum... But like I said, focus on YOU this time around. For him it will most guaranteed be all pleasure while you are the one who will have pain. So let him bother with himself this time around. Then after you get used to having sex and can actually enjoy it, then you can focus on him as well. But for now, really, think about yourself and not him. It is easy to make a guy come. It is a lot harder to make a woman come. If you want to know how to make him come just ask him.
And, for the record, while it usually takes longer for a guy to come while going at it slow, they still are able to come. And: if he is a virgin too he really has NO idea if he will be able to come or not during his first time. Some guys suffer from presentation anxiety and can't get it up once naked in bed with a woman. If that happens, just comfort him and say it is okay and try again another time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyes we are both legally aloud to have sex. (:
& yes he does want me to feel good, which is the point of going slow. he says whichever way I want it is how it'll be. i'm stuck on this: how can we go slow, but he be able to cum? he's very difficult for him to reach all the way. is it nearly impossible for a guy to be able to cum while going slow ?
so as you had said before, handjob after will make him cum?
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reader, chigirl +, writes (2 June 2010):
Hello! First off, how old is your boyfriend and what is the laws in your country about how old you must be to have sex?
Second: your boyfriend will feel good, do not worry about that. He doesn't need to have an orgasm in order to feel good, and if you absolutely want him to come you can always give him a handjob afterwards. But, is he thinking the same about you? Is he thinking about wanting to make you feel good as well? Your first time will probably not feel goo at all, so I advice you worry a little less about him, and a little more about yourself.
But, do not break the law! If you have to wait to have sex you should. The law is there for a reason.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2010): It's gonna hurt no matter how slow he goes. It's his size not his speed. It might even hurt worse if he goes slow. As for him cumming or not I guarantee you he will. Make sure you use protection and don't fall for the " I'll pull it out" line.
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