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writes: do men always talk to women behind their girlfriends back?i know i shouldn't look but i've had a bit of a snoop at who my boyfriend has been talking to on facebook.he's been inviting this girl round to a bbq (of which i never knew anything about) he also told her that we had been 'seeing' each other for 2 years (when we've been together for 2 years)he also was talking to another girl who he flirted with and she calls him gorge.i didn't know why men do this..
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhere's the thing, we deleted our facebooks before. because i came to uni & didn't want the added pressure of worrying about people he'd talk to. so it stopped him talking to people who he didn't know etc.
he needed to get it back to get phone numbers of his friends, but seems it's not just phone numbers he wants.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): I had this problem with my ex. He actually found me on Facebook and I was never big on getting to no anyone on social sites. I think its creepy when he thinks its normal. Anyway as we were together he talked to a lot of girls but one in particular and they are now "best friends" even tho only meeting twice in real life. I snooped on a lot and felt horrible about it but couldn't bring myself to ask him about it.
Eventually he brought it up saying he knew I was looking and said a lot of flirty things on purpose to get a rise out of me..Idk if I still believe him to this day. But as a person who went threw this..confront him. It's only going to hurt a lot more if u just keep looking and keep it to yourself.
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reader, laydee37 +, writes (2 June 2010):
Hey! I have the same problem! My bf has like 600 ppl on his friends list and he doesn't know like 500 of them and yeah there's a hell lot of girls!
I duno I think they think its cool and if they have gfs they think us girls will be with them forever so they can do whatever they want!
My bf and I knew each others passwords and all of a sudden he changed his so I changed mine!
So I'm worried that something is going on!
Try this.. Make a fake account and pretend like ur some bimbo and flirt with him and after a while ask him to meet you somewhere and make sure you go! Then tell him everything!
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