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writes:"OPs Own Title" Is my boss encouraging me to leave my job because he wants me? For months he has been looking at me in a way that is obvious attraction. He has grown on me too. I hear that he has children but see my family pictures in his office and the ring he wears does not look like a wedding ring. He stays at work really late and works out in the gym despite living on the other side of London.I am due to leave my job and he is helping me although I have not got another job to go to at the moment.Do you think he will maintain contact with me... I am a manager and a good one as he has acknowledged. I do not feel comfortable with him at work as he earns 2 1/2 times more than me and some times I feel he is too high.recently I was in his office and he was really staring at my body and trying to keep me in there fore longer. I did not feel comfortable as his PA was outside.Any comments will be grateful.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for answering. He says he is encouraging me to leave as I was due to go through a very unfair disciplinary that he has halted if I resigned. Plus I had already mentioned that I was not happy at the college. My staff do not like being managed and they have made my life hell. He has volunterred to help me with job interviews and my applications. I am getting very strong vibes from him. He started them. I dont know what he is picking up from me as I am being careful.
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reader, Oregongrl1  +, writes (3 June 2010):
Is he only interested in your body? because if he is and you quit your job what then? i would'nt quit my job for no man, who is going to take care of you? you are not an item yet! i mean you have'nt even kissed, you are only going off of vibes and his stares i think you are heading down a wrong road. if you are as good as you say you are (manager)then let him respect that and take it slow and see where it takes you.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (3 June 2010):
 Good luck doll hope it all works out for you :-)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Moo
I have become interested in him. He is so warma and approachable. His body language is a tell tail and I am not certain what language I am giving off.
I will take on your suggestion.
Thanks
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reader, Moo's Mum +, writes (3 June 2010):
From your post it's hard to work out if you are interested in him too. If you are interested in him then wait until you have left the job and see if he contacts you then suggest meeting for a coffee. If you are not intested in him then once you have left your job block all forms or contact from him.
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