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female
age
36-40,
*Caro
writes:I am a 24 year old women who has never had a real relationship. For the most part Ive been ok with that, content with the thought that I was never meant to date around. Of course there has been men in my past that I would have liked to explore a relationship with but because of my shyness and or other circumstances I have never pursued any of them beyond a quiet not quite yearning. Anyway, I met someone, someone who has made me feel like Ive never felt before. He makes my head spin and his smile melts my heart but I dont know if I could ever verbalize it. I fear rejection and it doesn't help that he is as shy as I am. For awhile I was on the fence, thinking maybe he was feeling the same for me because of little things hes mentioned or his body language. I was even inching closer to perhaps letting him know how I felt but then one day last week I go news that hit me like a brick. His sister (who Im good friends with) mentioned off hand that he had a thing for another girl we mutually know. Thing is, she is in a committed relationship with no signs of weakening. I dont know if I should continue to pursue him or let him go accepting that his heart is elsewhere? I just dont know what to do!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 June 2010):
You don't know anything really. His sister could be trying to get you to respond for all you know. You need to take a chance here and get on and ask him out or something. You haven't lost him yet. You don't know how he feels. It's time to take a chance and speak to him.
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