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writes: me and my ex have been split up for 5 months now. I want her back. She says we should concentrate on being friends and i agreed at the time because i dont want to lose her. I have tried fighting for her , but when i asked her the other day if there is anything i could of done to win her back she said no, but then she said never say never, who knows what will happen.What should i do. I want her back, and i dont want to be in friends box, i want to be her boyfriend. Do i just accept it be friends, try one last time to win her back or just walk away. I dont want to lose her in anyway, it just killing me so much, and when i think about being friends, all i can think is sometime along the line she will meet someone and i will be crushed because i will still love her. please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2010): In a female's perspective, I'm going to tell you that a girl's motivation is to have a man's touch & love her. So, if you really love or like this girl, you would do anything to try and get her back. So, why not? If you are worried about wasting your time, you literally aren't because no one has never wasted time on the subject of love & when it comes to love its never too late. So, why not start trying? Who knows maybe a miracle could happen and she might just take you back by showing how affectionate you could be towards her. If you don't take the chance of trying to win her back, you'll never know the result of having her or not having her at all.
P.S. A girl loves it when a man would fight for her.
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reader, TimmD  +, writes (2 June 2010):
 Sometimes being patient and showing them that you are there for them no matter what is the only way to accomplish the goal you seek. You can't force somebody to be ready. The best relationships are built on friendship. Maybe you should focus on becoming a good friend to her and eventually even her best friend. Your relationship would only continue to grow from there and you two might be better off for it.
How did you two break up?
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