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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 June 2010):
I would say that she did something. She was at a lingerie party that she lied about where he crush was. Time to dump her
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reader, GrimmReality  +, writes (2 June 2010):
 She not only lied to you about her whereabouts but went to a lingerie party to see a guy she was crushing on....
and on top of that she will not tell you if she did anything with this guy?
I am afraid that you risk becoming a lifelong doormat if you don't get some backbone and dump this chick NOW.
This girl will eat you alive and steal your soul and ability to love if you allow her to disrespect you in such a manner. That simply is nothing short of emotional abuse in my opinion and please by all means pick yourself up, dust yourself off and run!
The curb...find the nearest one and dump her off at it
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2010): If she won't tell you either way about screwing someone else that usually means she did.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (2 June 2010):
 Your gut feelings could be wrong and you would do yourself no favours. I think you ought to give her the benefits of doubt .
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2010): definitely go with your gut. shes probably cheating on you.
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reader, snikneJBP +, writes (2 June 2010):
Go With Your Gut. I refused to listen to my gut for 6 months while my girlfriend of 2 years cheated on me, was a complete bitch, and wasn't a person I really loved afterall. Just make sure you're not TRYING to love this girl. Relationships are supposed to be EASY, but with a few bumps along the way. If you have to ignore your gut to get over this bump- then it's not a bump, it's a solid brick wall that you're gonna have to face at some point.
Avoid the drama and you'll be fine.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (2 June 2010):
 Going to a lingerie party does not sound like working things out. She did this to you? You don't have to put up with her behavior. End it now. Set her free and set yourself free.
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