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writes:Hey internet users, I was wondering if you guys had some words of wisdom for my problem...i have a wonderful, amazing boyfriend who loves me very much. He's successful in school and has a very nice attitude towards everyone. But, his dad is everything except nice. He spends the days and nights watching horror movies, and basically thinks he's the joker. He has a closet-full of guns from pistols to desert eagles, and uses them frequently. This guy has a terrible don't-do-nothing attitude and now his wife divorced him. I'm afraid to be around my bf because of his dad but i dont know how to end it.
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reader, BunnyTee +, writes (2 June 2010):
 Wow. He sounds kinda creepy. Just because someone owns guns doesn't make them creepy, though. It is how they act with those guns that matters. If he's irresponsible with them, then by all means stay away from the guy. But if the guy thinks he's the Joker and has weapons waving them around for no apparent reason, or worse points them at others in effort to intimidate, then this is a sure sign that he goes beyond creepy and you really need to stay clear of someone who acts like this. If he is responsible and keeps them where they belong, that's another matter. A Desert Eagle is a very powerful weapon best left to those old enough and experienced enough to properly handle such things. Have you tried to explain to your b/f, politely that his father makes you uncomfortable?
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2010): Maybe don't go round to his house but get your bf to come round to yours, his dad is a freak, I "know" someone like that, they're such a mess and it's so immature, it's people with nothing in their lives suffering from some kind of wierd desperate megalomania because they have nothing... But him having guns is a step too far. The thing is it's hard to talk to your bf about this cos he will probz know that people think his dad is a freak bit he will still love him and might be offended by you saying anything, perhaps suggest you two spend alot of time out of his house, this could mean going for walks or going to yours, cheap meals out?!
Also if he uses those guns to kill animals an e does it quite frequently and enjoys it a rigouros amour he sounds a bit like he is going through the first stages of physcopathy...
If his mum left is she buying a house?? can your bf live with her and then you can spend time there?
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reader, Oregongrl1 +, writes (2 June 2010):
How you end it just by being honest!and just maybe you're boyfriend may have a solution? you could always see each other away from his father's house. and if you really want to end it talk w/ your parents.
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