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writes:This is my problem...I have a "boyfriend" that I met in the net. I haven't met him personally yet. We send sms and talk to each other in the net. He already told his parents and friends that he has a girlfriend. He says that his heart beats for me and that he'll love me forever.. The problem is... I don't really love him.. I am not ready. Not yet. I'm still focused in my studies and I don't want to disappoint my parents because they don't want me to have relationships yet. I want to break up with him.. Please.. Should I? I don't know what to do. Please help me.. T^TThank you so much guys.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for the advices! I appreciate it very much. :D
Well, I talked to him already but he said he'd rather die. I got mad and said let's call it a day. He said let's forget what happened now and I said I don't know. Now, he's trying to send me messages and call me but I don't answer. I just want this to end. Hope this ends well soon.
Again, thank you very much! :)
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reader, princessJaye14  +, writes (2 June 2010):
 Well, I really wish I could prove that what I want to say will definitely work, but I don't want you to do anything you're not sure of. My advice would be to tell him that you're not comfortable with knowing that he's basically a complete stranger. Tell him that you just want to be friends, and that you have a boyfriend already, (even if you don't.) Once he finds out that you're "in a relationship", he'll back off. You can tell that he's a predator if he doesn't leave you alone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionTo princessJaye14, I have seen him but only in his pictures.. And will you give me an idea on how to break it to him? We are in the same age also.. Thanks a lot..
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reader, princessJaye14 +, writes (2 June 2010):
The first thing you should consider is if this guy is real or not. You can never know if he's a child predator that just sped the relationship up so he could hurry and meet you. He shouldn't be making decisions for you, and it's understandable that you want to break up with him. My advice is for you to cut all communication off with him. If you've never met him, talked to him in person, or seen him, he could be dangerous. Trust me, I had the same problem and wasn't so smart. Good luck!
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