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writes:if a man that you have been with for 3 years tells you he Loves you** but, not in Love with you. should i stay or should i go.a man takes his shower soap to work and then says he iswashing up after working in a HOT department in the warehouse and he washes up after he is finished in that department from sweat?a man tell you he is going bowling with his friends. the alley is 2 miles from the house. he puts on 55 miles that day.should i question him regarding the miles.find an address on a match book if you pull it up on a map it is 44 miles back and forth. and if added 10 miles on going to the bowling alley that would add up to the 55 miles. gets off work early and wont tell me that he did. 1-2 hours and then comes home at the usual time.. should i question this? Reply to this Question
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (2 June 2010):
 The very first line had me right out the door. Sadly, but gone. The rest is just icing on the ugly cupcake. I'm sorry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2010): Sweetie he has somebody else. His story is so full of crap it's not even funny. Pack your bags and find a man that loves you.
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reader, AuntyEm  +, writes (2 June 2010):
 If you would definitely leave him if he was cheating, then you owe it to yourself to find out if that is the case!!
Don't just take his word. His actions are suspicious and he has told you he's not in love with you. He may wish to have his cake and eat it, keeping you at home while he has an affair.
Do a little detective work, ask a trusted friend to help you. A few calls to work or following him might give you the answers you need. Then you can decide what to do.
Best of luck
AE x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (2 June 2010):
Yeah, I'm afraid it sounds like he's cheating. Try to find out a bit more about what he gets up to before you confront him. Try phoning work at a certain time, or even follow him and see where he goes. Then confront him with all the evidence you have.
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reader, nikki77 +, writes (2 June 2010):
In my opinion I think there is something fishy going on. I am a 32 year old female and have been married twice and what you are saying sounds exactly like when my ex cheated. The main thing you need to ask yourself and you are the only one that can give a true answer is are you happy and do you want to stay?
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