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writes:Hey.So i have a little problem.i recently broke up with my boyfriend we had been on and off for about a year, we have known each other since yr1.we broke up because we are both jealous people, i don like him talking to the chick that he cheated on me with, i dont like him hugging other girls. he doesnt like me talking to another guy at all.anyway we argued about 5nights out of the week every week. i love him dearly but he just makes me so mad.and due to us breaking up he's now seeing a counsellor and im worried his going to try doing something stupid. he claims the counsellor said to follow his heart which he says is to be with me but the counsellor also says "to let fate do it" stuff.Im really worried that im hurt him that bad and causing him to be upset for however long now all because i cant stand being mad and stressed out cause of him anymore.am i doing the right thing for myself by not being with him?
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reader, LuvDrunk  +, writes (3 June 2010):
Even if you love him it's not fair to either of you to stay together if your going to be miserable. Love isn't an easy thing you both have to give and take. Forgive and forget. But there comes a point when enough is enough and it's best to just be friends.
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reader, Moo's Mum  +, writes (3 June 2010):
 Together you two are a train wreak! Move on and don't give him another thought you will be better people apart from each other. You should try to work on your jealously before the next relationship comes along.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 June 2010):
You hurt him? He's the one who cheated and is treating you badly. Yes, you're doing the right thing not being with him. Don't let anyone treat you this way.
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