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writes:Hey everyone!! If a girl likes a guy and she told him how she felt towards him and he didnt feel the same, how can she show him that she really cares enough so he can think "dam she really likes me, i should give her a chance" instead of him thinking "dam she's obsessed, get her away from me". I dont know if this is making any sense or if u get my question but if you do please reply. Thanks so much Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2010): Mmmm... It doesn't really work like that. Guys like a challenge, we like a good chase. If a girl tells a guy how she feels about him and the guy rejects her, then she should just move on and find someone else who will appreciate her. Cos if he ever gets with a girl he doesn't like in that way, its only going to be for sex, (with few exceptions).
A guy is never going to think, "dam, she really likes me, I should give her a chance"... EVER. This isn't charity... a guy may pity you or enjoy the ego boost, but not enough to date you for it, that's just silly. Whether you're a guy or a girl, it doesn't matter how much somebody likes you, it matters how much you like them.
Even when I've really wanted a girlfriend and been lonely as anything, I've never chosen to give any girl who openly liked me a chance whom I didn't like in return. I bet you'd do the same... there's plenty of people you wouldn't date at school regardless of what they did or said to try to win your affections.
I could go on and on, but frankly I hope you move on and find someone who likes you back instead of trying to change yourself or play mind games to win this particular guy over.
Best of luck :)
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 June 2010):
Sorry, but he's not interested. I know that's not what you want to hear, but there is no way you can make him change his mind. He has to do it for himself. If he's not interested, he's just not. And you need to let him go and move on.
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reader, MiscellaneousG +, writes (2 June 2010):
Find out what type of girl he likes and see if you're that type.
If not, just be yourself around him and maybe he'll like you. Don't be too available and don't show that you like him too much--it's relationship suicide to stalk a guy.
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