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writes:[Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into one post]8 months into the relationship and I am starting to give her oral. She wants me to turn the lights out(even if we are the only ones in the building), and she won't remove her underwear. I have promised her to wait for marrage for actual sex so I don't see why she is worried about it.Does this mean she is unsure of herself? If so can I help this anyway?Been playing with her boobs for months. She loves it, but won't let me take her bra off, she just tells me to lift it up.What does this mean, why won't she remove it or let me remove the bra?
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (2 June 2010):
 Have you heard "one thing led to another?" I think she's sure of herself. She's sure she doesn't want to have penetration sex right now. It's very normal, nothing strange. The more you test her boundaries, the more frustrated and antsy for wanting to try the real deal. She doesn't want to regret anything if she does lose her inhibition. There are many ways to show intimacy without being sexual. Time goes by fast so enjoy this innocent stage of the relationship.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (2 June 2010):
She's just unsure and shy about it all. Give her time and just be gentle and understanding.
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reader, MiscellaneousG +, writes (2 June 2010):
Girls have insecurities--despite how gorgeous you may find her. She may not think her breasts are big enough or she may not want you to stare at her body, so she asks you to turn off the light.
If you are her first, she will feel afraid. This can be partly due to her desire to hold onto as much of her 1st as she can or just because it makes her feel more empowered. To be with a guy feels nice, but at the same time, it makes girls feel very vulnerable because she has to trust you so much...respect her when she asks for you to take it slowly and don't push her into doing something that she's afraid to do.
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