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writes:I have liked this guy(who is my best friends best guy friend) for a couple months now but I have tried to keep it quiet since I don't want things to be ackward. But after my prom He and I made out after prom then fooled around one night over the weekend but the second/last night of the weekend nothing happened. I was really disappointed since I thought we both had a good time the other nights. I don't know how to approach the situation when I hang out with him and mutual friends. How do you think I should go about this situation?
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reader, Tashie08  +, writes (3 June 2010):
It sounds like he doesn't want to settle in a relationship and thinks too much of you to have flings with...at least he aknowledges that it would hurt you. Just be yourself,don't mention it unless he does, but if he does, let him lead the conversation. I wouldn't personally wait around for him, but you never know what the future holds!! Something might happen between the two of you and the only way to know is to spend time together as friends. Just be yourself and if he changes his mind about you, i'm sure he'll let you know.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHere is an update on the situation he told our best friend that he stopped things before he would hurt me because he doesn't know what he wants & he doesn't want a relationship. I like him & this kind of uset me but it hasn't stopped me from still wanting to be with him. I am going to see him Saturday and I don't know how to act. I know what he says changes things, so how should I approach the situation now?
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reader, Tashie08 +, writes (2 June 2010):
what i would do is text him just bein friendly and a bit bubbly somethin like "hey!!you fancy hangin out and havin a few games on something?" and see what kinda response you'l get. I have been in a couple of situations like that and being like that has stopped the awkward quiet period. Admittedly though, i think one time the guy thouht it was a bit of a mistake about what happened, but because i broke the ice the way i did, it meant that our friendship was back on track(and we still are friends to this day) just assume that you guys are just friends and unless something materialises again, it might be best to keep those questions to yourself. Best wishes and hope it works out x
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reader, Ojunaidu  +, writes (2 June 2010):
Perhaps he doesn't want your spending time together to move from being nightstands to a full fledge relationship but if you love him, try letting him know how you feel and I believe he will understand and you guy can then share even more precious time together.
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