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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes:i met a boy a while back (who is a bit older than me)but never spoke then recently i went to a party and we got talking, he asked me lots of questions about me and seemed genuinly interested and always seemed to direct the questions at me. he was always trying to make me laugh and i always felt he was watching me when i wasnt looking. when we looked at eachother, even when just talking, he would look me right in the eyes and hold the stare for a bit longer after we had finished talking. we had alot of laughs and it was all going great and at the end of the party we gave eahother a hug.i already had him on facebook and we talked on the chat on that, a bit and we have eachothers msn now but he always gives one word answers when i ask him a question, no emotions or anything and he never starts up the conversation.his friend likes me and he was asking me if i like his friend but i told him i didnt and asked why and he just asnwered with "lol jw". what does this mean? does this mean he is pleased i dont like his friend or not?also, when i talk to him on msn he sometimes doesnt answer or he just signs out.i really want to do something with him and our other friends soon because i wont be seeing him that much but dont want to leave it too long.im really confused whether he likes me or not and not sure whether to give him my number in case he doesnt like me at all.please help!any suggestions? and any suggestions from males would be appreciated, thanks.
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reader, JTL  +, writes (3 January 2010):
1) It sounds to me like he knows how girls like being treated (asking questions about you, eye contact etc.) but this in no way means he likes you. It just means he knows how girls like being treated and uses it to his advantage.2) If his friend likes you and this friend is a good friend of his there is an unspoken rule that you are off limits for the time being. It also could put up an emotional barrier for him because he doesn't want to like the same girl his friend likes...(this is how my group of friends is at least).You may want to back off. Stop messaging him. Being hard to get is attractive to guys while the opposite just lets him know he could have you if he wanted you. It boosts his confidence but won't make him like you.
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (3 January 2010):
 To be painfully honest the guy might just have been trying to get with you at this party. Its sad but thats what alot of guys do. Your best bet is to ask him on a date, some one on one time in a neutral environment and you'll be able to tell then if he is really interested in you as a person. If he won't do this then it is best to move on.
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