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writes:hey theres this girl im mad about who just came out of a ralationship, I have built up a strong friendship but she found out i like her. when i talk to her i lied out of instinct and said i didnt like her in this way and she replied "oh thank god". i also have no self confidence due to bullies. The bullying has stopped but I still have no self confidence, because of this i feel like im going to die alone i know i sounds pathetic but still i want to tell herhow i feel but cant.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010): It sounds like you are deep in the Friend Zone so you probably won't get her any time soon. But it might be better if you told her about your feelings just to keep your friendship on totally honest ground.
Start thinking about other girls. You probably won't get this one, and getting other girls showing romantic interest in you is the best way to help you get this girl either way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010): I told a friend i fancied him although i knew there was a possibility that he wouldn't like me - it wasn't really about him though, it was about closure for me ... saying it, getting it out there and just dealing with the consequences. As racheal from friends says something along the lines of "everyone likes to be told that they are loved" even if the feelings aren't returned. I say what have you got to lose. I told my friend and although he wasn't interested, it did bring us closer because we shared a new level of honesty and i was able to get over my feelings because i had set them free to the world.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010): hi, i think you should just come out and tell her the truth i mean what could you possibly lose by telling her.
i think she might have said 'oh thank god' to make you feel slightly better or she was saying that so your friendship wouldnt change.
please just come out with the truth, i am coming clean to a guy i like but i know he wont feel the same but what have i got to lose. x
all the best good luck x
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 January 2010):
I was bullied like mad too, and it took me years (4) before I really found any confidence again. But sometimes you just have to take a chance. I did, and I found that she liked me. I'm still with her now. Think of something to say when you're both alone, then just say it. That's what I did.
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