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writes:Whats the right age to lose your virginity?I am 15 am I too young?!?How do I masturbate? (women)... What does sex feel like for a women?what am i letting myself in for?I don't want to have sex till I am 19 am i frigid?I want to have sex but I don't think I am ready. What can I do to take my mind off it?
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reader, person12345  +, writes (3 January 2010):
 You should have sex when you're ready, meaning you trust the guy, are comfortable, and just plain really want to. The average age is somewhere around 16 for girls. Waiting doesn't make you frigid though.I know lots of women who are 20 or 21 and are beautiful women who are very popular and aren't waiting for religion, they just haven't found the right guy.
Most women masturbate by using a vibrator, rubbing their fingers in a circular motion on their clit, or a lot of women use water, like a massaging showerhead or spreading their legs under the tub faucet. You'll just have to play around when you're alone to see what works. There's a TON about this on the internet if you just poke around.
Sex for a women feels different than for a man! Your first time it will probably hurt, but it should start to feel good after you're a bit more experienced. You don't really have too many nerves IN your vagina so you can't feel too much just from being penetrated, but you feel a full feeling that just feels really, really good and you can feel him moving. If he does it right you should feel friction on your clitoris or pressure on your Gspot that can make you tingle all over or even orgasm. Most women can't orgasm from sex alone and even if you can, it won't probably won't happen until you're more experienced.
Masturbation is a great way to keep your mind off sex if that's what you need, though I don't think that thinking about sex a lot is a bad thing especially not at your age.
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reader, Leo1989  +, writes (3 January 2010):
 no your not too young for sex etc. for masturbation i suggest you invest in a vibrator. and experiment! play with your clit, search for your g-spot, take the time to find out what you like. it will be well worth it. as for sex you dont need commitment but it helps trust me on that. it makes being intimate so much better. you may orgasm first time. i did and felt no pain. if you need more advice or didnt understand some of the things i mentioned feel free to ask me via pm
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reader, Blamongo8 +, writes (3 January 2010):
No one can tell you when to lose your virginity but I would say 15 is a nice safe age. So all the best for you.
Now, to masturbate, the usuall thing to do (that I know of) is to put your index and pointer finger together (on your prefered hand), and move them in and out of your vagina very quickly. As I am a man I don't know how it feels but it's supposed to feel great. So enjoy.
But anyway, 15 is not too young. However if you don't want to then try playing music or playing sport. All the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010): First off, you shouldn't feel like you have to lose your virginity..it should happen naturally when the time is right with someone you fully trust and love and cafe for. i lost my virginity when i was fifteen..and i dont regret it at all. i mean the first time i had [wanted] sex it was with somoene i love and i know ill be with forever. im only seventeen now but im still with that guy. And no, you're not frigid. It's good to wait. You shouldn't have sex even if a tiny tiny part of you is unsure about it. you have to be fully committed in taking that next step with somoene.
Masturbating is a great waay to keep your mind off of wanting sex with guys. how you masturbate depends on every different girl. Most people use their fingers to rub their clit untill they cum and others use vibrators.
This is also good practice to know what you're in for before you have sex.
What does sex feel like for a girl, you ask? Well for the first time it will probably hurt, however the pain will only be momentarily. after you guys get into the groove of things, it should start feeling good. I can garuntee you wont orgasm your first time. I didn't untill maybe 6 7 months after i started haviing sex. and it's not just from penetration i had to stimulate my own clit during sex to reach climax..which is pretty normal for most women. Only 20% of all women can have an orgasm with just penis penetration alone.
I hope i've helped, even in the slightest way.
Just wait to have sex, trust me. Wait untill you're with a guy for a while and you're madly in love with him and he's in love with you.
If that's the case, then as long as you're mature and responsible; i don't think it matters how old you are once you lose your virginity.
:)
--amber
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 January 2010):
I'm a guy, so some of those I can't answer. I can tell you that in Britain it's illegal for you to have sex under the age of 16, and after that the most important thing is that you have sex when you're ready and when you're with a guy who truly cares for you.
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