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writes:Hello (:I'm new to this site, but every time I type something into google to look for advice, I always get sent here. Right now, I am dating a boy who is a year younger than I am. I am 15 years old (almost 16) and he is 14. He's (as I call him) my "good little catholic boy" (haha) and we don't plan on doing anything. We've dated (technically, as we broke up for about a month when I was having some...issues) for 6 months. We are young, but we feel as though we are deeply in love and want to spend the rest of our lives together. I love him, a lot, and as of right now, I would love to marry him and have a family with him, but I'm not sure if/when that will change. We haven't even kissed yet because we haven't found the right time. We're waiting for the perfect moment. My question is...are we too young to want to be together for the rest of our lives and make tentative plans for our furture?Thanks in advance for the help. (:
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone! And especially the total romantic responder. His parents met when they were our age and are together still, happily, with 7 kids. But again, thank you! :D
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010): I am a total romantic and I know of two couples who have now been together for 25 and 35 years who met around your age, so I am a believer it can work and I don't think there is a problem with creating that fantasy of always being together but just so long as you don't create an extensive amount of pressure. If you grow apart, you should know that it's alright for you to separate romantically. And you should leave marriage and heavy commitments like that - at least the reality of them - for at least 10 more years, because until you're about 26 or older you are still going through mondo changes and you could easily grow apart and if you make a commitment too soon, it would be all the more painful to have to walk away.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks, and I'll take that into consideration. (:
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reader, ForeverDawn +, writes (3 January 2010):
 Yes you are young but love has nothing to do with age things between you and him might or not work but that only time will tell For now I would say just live the moment enjoy what your feeling Your young don't worry yourself so much with the future and family plans that will come in time!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010): Sorry to say this but personaly i think you are way too young, you have the rest of your lives ahead of you why would you want to be "stuck" with the same man/boy for the rest of your life? .... you may meet somebody who you like alot more than "mr perfect" and feel the same about him. you are young and should explore men a bit more before you decide you want to spend forever with him. :)
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