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writes:Im a 25yr old female virgin, can anyone see a problems with this?Im a shy girl and have anxiety and depression that ive had since childhood.I've no experience with guys but am happy waiting for mr right to come along.I believe that if someone really truely loves me then he will understand and be happy for me to go at my own pace in the relationship.
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reader, daletom  +, writes (4 January 2010):
It's a problem only if YOU think it's a problem. Statistically, you ARE a minority - but so are left-handed Eskimos. Your situation actually reflects a strong personality that can take a stand on something you consider to be important.
You're right that when the right guy comes along, your virginity will not be the least bit offensive to him. It's actually likely to be an attraction - be certain it isn't the main thing attracting him to you! Likewise, when you meet the right guy you'll want to satisfy him in ways that are very special to both of you.
My wife (of 35 yrs) and I were both 23-yr old virgins on our wedding night.
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reader, thekinkyone +, writes (3 January 2010):
 Nope not at all..I was a 25 year old virgin when I got married. Sure I lacked the experience, but lucky for me I also married an inexperienced 25 year old virgin too. The first year was a little frustrating to trying to figure out what we enjoyed during sex. But after 7 years of being married, neither of us regrets waiting for the right person to come along and give ourselves to them. It's been a lot of fun learning and trying new things.
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reader, Blamongo8 +, writes (3 January 2010):
There is absaloutely nothing wrong about being a 25 year old virgin. Don't let anyone put you down about it.
If you're happy waiting for Mr Right then he will come soon.
What you believe about relationships is perfectly true and no one can tell you otherwise. Best wishes for your future.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 January 2010):
No, no problem at all. Your'e right, if a guy does love you and care about you enough, he won't pressure you. Believe me, you'll feel far better than those people who give it away then regret it. Stick to your beliefs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010): You are a rare commodity. Some guy will be lucky to have you!!
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