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female
age
30-35,
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writes:I am in a long distance relationship and have been for about 4 months. obviously it is really difficult but I am starting to wonder if my boyfriend is losing interest in me. we dated for 7 months before we started being long distance. i really love him and he used to (and hopefully still does) really love me. he says he wants to marry me and i even have an engagement ring. he used to be sort of clingy and i was the one who used to be a little put off by it. but ever since we have been long distance its like our roles have reversed. every other day i feel like he is going to leave me i cry about him all of the time, and i get jealous of the girls he all of the sudden started hanging out with when i left. i try really hard not to let him know all of this but sometimes it is overwhelming and i tell him how i feel. he gets really put off by it even though i used to console him when he was being like this. Half the time he ignores any of my calls or texts (and no i don’t call more then once if he doesn’t answer). then the other half of the time he apologizes and tells me i deserve better and calls me all of the time. Its never consistent though its like one day I’m worth it to him one day I’m not. I have never been like this over a guy before and it's driving me crazy. is he losing interest and getting sick of me? will he leave me soon?
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reader, fullvee +, writes (4 January 2010):
From what you write ~ Specifically the "you deserve better" statement you say he says, leads me to believe he may be losing interest. You have a ring, so, what about a 'test'? Ask for the date to get married! His initial response to that question will give you your answer. Trust your instinct.
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