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*lejandro
writes:I have been with my gf for 4 months and she rocks my world. Our relationship is great, but we haven't had sex yet. She's a virgin and I'm beyond nervous about it. I lost my virginity when I was 17 and it was a drunken mess. I really want to make herfirst time special but I am not sure how. She tells me she is ready but I don't want her to do it just because she wants me to be happy. She is turning 19 next week and I was thinking that maybe that would be a good day for us. So ladies (and guys) how can I make her first time as wondeful as she is. And I also need a "you rock my world" bday gift too any ideas
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010): got her a Pandora bracelet, those always go down well.
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reader, alejandro +, writes (3 January 2010):
alejandro is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys, I did a lot of thinking and I decided to just let it happen when it happens (sooner then later I hope. I will be as respectful and sweet as I can and I hope that is special enough for her.
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reader, lazyman87  +, writes (3 January 2010):
i don't quite buy into this hotel thing. it sounds too predictable, and to me a bit sleazy, although i wouldn't suggest that sleaze is the reason you'd do it.
i think you should let it happen spontaneously, don't plan anything but have a condom in your wallet at all times. if you plan, you could plan it too much and risk it being anti-climactic which neither of you wants.
maybe i'm being too idealistic because it's how i wish id have lost my virginity. instead of being with a long-term girlfriend, a female friend of mine and i had way, way too much to drink at a party (well, i'm not sure she drank that much looking back) and, in a bramble bush in a crap city i won't name we did it. i think she had planned it a bit due to texts i received before the event. i'm not proud, but this experience has made me think that planning things like that is not what i want to do. i hope you get my gist.
best of luck, and apologies if this is a load of poo.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (3 January 2010):
If you have the cash then get a nice hotel room for the night, then buy her a nice meal, take her back and have it all set up so there is everything ready. (CONDOMS NEARBY!!!)
Have a drink with your meal but not too much.
And just take it really slowly with her. Lots of foreplay and lots of cuddling afterwards.
Good Luck!! xx
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