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30-35,
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writes:There's this girl I have really liked for a couple of years now, who I am friends with. For the last year or so she has had a boyfriend, but recently she broke up with him. When she was still with him, I told her that I had really strong feelings for her and wanted to be with her. At the time she pointed out how she already had a boyfriend, and that she wasnt sure that she would feel the same about me. Now that she has split up with her boyfriend, I have started trying to spend more time with her a bit, but how can I try to push things forward in the right direction? I really really do like her, I seriously think about her all day every day and it makes me indescribably happy when I am with her or talking to her. I just want a chance to see if we can make something of it.. but I'm not sure how to go about it. help please.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010): If you can be happy without ever being with her, you will have a higher chance of being with her. Pushing her right now would likely not work. Sure, she can know that you'd like to go out with her. Just train yourself to not chase. The same goes for anything where persuasion is involved, i.e. don't be needy.
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