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writes:Hello again, I have written a few times and have gotten good advice. I'm the one who dated the man who was very heavy for almost six months and broke up because of his ED. He played lots of games after we broke up like making me jealous and sending me mixed signals. Thank goodness I am finally over him. I started working out at a gym since May. I noticed a good looking man there. He has strawberry blonde hair and is slim/muscular. From his behavior I could tell he was on the quiet side. I would see him just working out and not talking to any of the other peopole there. I can recall one time that he sat down by a table right by me. I was on the treadmill and could feel that he was looking at me. During the summer and into September I would see him if I would go and work out early. I was really busy from mid September to November and only was able to work out once or twice a week. I had to go later in the afternoon and not my usual 9-9:30. I had forgotten all about this man. During this time I had joined yet another online dating site, had a few dates, but found no one of interest. Recently I had dated one man twice, but found that he was to much out there and not my type at all. I went to the gym last Tuesday at around 1:30, which is much later thatn I wanted to. I was finishing up in the circuit room and all of a sudden I noticed the man with the strawberry blonde hair was there. He was working on the arm machines. I was happy and surprised. We both were shyly looking at each other. I was going on the last machine and he came up to me and apologized for not wipping off the machine. I told him not to worry about it and we exchange a few more words. When he spoke to me I was really surprised and noticed he had the most amazing blue eyes. We continued with or work outs and I noticed that he was stretching. I thought how cute, he is showing off. I then went to the other room to work on my last two machines. I left my jacket there on the floor on purpose. After I was done, I went to pick up my jacket and he was still there. He turned around and I smiled at him. I could kick myself for not talking to him more or giving him my number. I have been to the gym since and haven't seen him. I even asked the staff at the gym and they are helping me to find out who he is and when he comes in. The trainer there knew who I was talking about. I do have a class there on Monday from 9-10 and am pretty sure he will be there. That was the time I would usually see him in the summer and fall. I have my regular rotinue at the gym. I work out on the treadmill and then off to the circuit. I think that me must have seen me finishing on the treadmill and knew I was going to be in the circuit room. I know eventually I will see him there again. My question is should I approach him first? I have heard that men like to do the chasing, but I'm am pretty sure that he likes me. If so what should I say without sounding to forward? Or should I just let him make another move? I don't want to waste another opportunity to get to talk to and get to know him better.
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