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She says she loves me to the end of the earth but doesn't want to lose our friendship...

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Question - (3 January 2010) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 January 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

So i have known this girl for most of my life, i met her freshmen year of high school and i am now 21. My problem is that i am confused. I really care about this girl, and she told me recently that she loved me to the ends of the earth after saying that she doesn't want to lose our friendship if something happens between us if we were to date one another. Plus she's always dropping subtle hints like "i love the way your hair looks", and "your the only one that knows how to make me smile". I have tried so many times to get over my feelings for her and i am finding it pretty much impossible. Any idea's on what i should do?

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A male reader, lazyman87 United Kingdom +, writes (3 January 2010):

dude! i am in the exact position as you. the girl in question for me knows me well enough, that i was able to tell her absolutely everything, and we're still friends. i risked our friendship by telling her my feelings, but she understood, and we still are friends. whether our friendship will last is up for debate given that i can't seem to lose my feelings, but here's hoping.

i don't know how i can really help you too much, but i thought i should write something. it is always comforting to know that someone else is in your shoes.

i wrote a similar question, and here is the link which you may be interested in.

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/am-i-in-best-friends-for-life-territory.html

candleman was a saint.

i know in an update i said i was getting over her, but recently that has not been the case.

best of luck, i really feel for you.

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