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female
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*earsdontfall
writes:Hello, i was recently in a relationship with a boy 1 year older, im 13 and hes 14. We were having regular meetings and having foreplay almost everytime, we were both virgins, until the other day he asked if i wanted to go all the way and i straight away said no so he said okay. After he forcingly penetrated me and i told him to stop and he did but tried it again. I left almost straight after and i was telling my friend what happened and how i really didnt want it. She said i should go to the police but i dont want my parents or absolutly anybody else to find out what happened or i know i will get a reputation. 4 days after this happened he broke up with me and i feel so used. what can i do now cas im just feeling so down all the time ?!?!thanks x
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reader, Lillia +, writes (14 January 2010):
 You might not think it right now but he is NOT worth getting upset over. He has completly disrespected your decision to wait! If you dont want to talk to the police then at least talk to your mum! Dont feel embarrased, your mum wont think any different of you and will help you! His the one who will get a reputation.. a very nasty one not you hunny your not in the wrong xx
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reader, lolli-pop +, writes (10 January 2010):
i think you should go to the police. if he forced himself on you then he raped you and that is illegal. in all honesty you should worry more about the fact this guy can now go after some other girl rather than the fact that you may have a bit of reputation. this guy raped you and i know you're probably scared but there are people to help you and no one will think badly of you because this wasn't your fault, you said no which took courage none of this was your fault
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 January 2010):
You won't get a reputation. If he forced himself on you, then he raped you. You have been used and raped, so tell someone. Please don't sit there suffering in silence, because this won't go away. It will only get worse unless you confront it.
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reader, lif3sucks  +, writes (3 January 2010):
 wel first off your way better off with out him you should be proud that you got up and left no guy should treat a girl like that or vice versa. Just keep your chin up and move on there are more boys out there better ones, and you will find one your still young just be happy and have fun
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