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writes:Should he be texting other women?My fiancee and I have been together for 5 years the first year and a half were incredibly rocky. He ended up with two, myabe three other women while we were together. We moved past all of that, if you can believe it. A year and a half ago he proposed to me and we were just great so of course I said yes. We were so happy. Well last march he bagan working at a car dealership where he met a bank lender. He is a finance manager of this dealership. They started texing almost a 100 texts a day. I told him i knew he had to text her but that was way to much and I wasn't foolish enough to believe that was all work related. He doesn't text her as much but at least 4 times a month or maybe a little more they will talk on the phone for almost 30 minutes. Mind you, I do look through his phone as I need to for own security and I have never seen anything that was inappropriate. Some things made me uncomfortable but it wasn't inappropriate.Now there are three other women that I know of that he texts somewhat regularly and I don't like it.I don't know any of these women, if I did I could be different. It makes me incredibly uncomfortable. I have talked to him about this as late as yesterday and he said he would stop becuase it hurts me so bad that he does this and yet upon review of my phone bill today he was texting away yesterday. I am beginning to think there may be something up again.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 January 2010):
There isn't anything wrong with a man texting women. But let's face it, he has one hell of a past. I think you need to do some more digging and find out about these women to be honest. And don't be in a rush to get married.
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