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female
age
30-35,
*8ta09
writes:if i give this letter to him is he going to take it the wrong way? i dont want to leave him..its supposed to be more of a wake up call or a warning.. "i think we both know how much i love you and that my intentions in where this relationship is headed are much different than yours. i understand the conflict this has caused between us and know that somewhere there has to be compromise. there are vital assets lacking in our relationship, but we both need to realize none of that can be resolved without talking about it. im afraid to talk to you about much of anything anymore because everytime i do you threaten to leave and it quickly turns into a heated argument. i personally can see myself spending the rest of my life with you/but not if i continue to feel so neglected. you prmoised things would get better.. so far nothing has changed at all. i REALLY hope things get better. at one point in time i was happier with you than ive been in my entire life. i love you. forever and always, signed." do you think hes gonna take this the wrong way and think im leaving him? thats not wat i wanna do... please help! :(
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reader, 78ta09 +, writes (3 January 2010):
78ta09 is verified as being by the original poster of the question well i know ive kind of turned into a bitch cuz that seems to be the only way to make him listen hes 26 and yes, he is very immature for his age..when we first got together everything seemed perfect.. it only lasted about 3 months..and ive already told him i was gonna leave..packed my things and everything and h begged me not to leave and promised things would get better..i dont want to fix.him.. i juat want the person he used to be back. thanks for the followup tho guys..just wanted some outside opinion on the letter..thank you
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (3 January 2010):
The thing is, according to that letter you've already asked for him to change his behaviour and he hasn't. So you're having to ask twice for him to change his behaviour? That's twice too much given that he's supposed to care about you. And that's not a good sign. I think the letter is fine. You've made it clear that you aren't leaving and you want things to work out. But honestly, if nothing changes after this, you need to leave him. A man who loves you will listen.
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