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writes: So, this is going to sound complicated and rather weird.Question #1: So last year, for about 8 months I had a boyfriend. We had sex nearly every day (Sometimes more than twice a day) we were very sexual. I loved him very very much. But we broke up last May. During the summer I was very sad and upset. But now, it's been a while and I'm ready to get back up there! I don't really want any serious commitments. I don't really want a boyfriend. I sort of want a friend just to have sex with. Is that wrong?Question #2: I'm a pretty horny girl. Masturbation does not always cut it now. I'm sort of.... promiscuous in a way. I've made out with girls and experimented and all that. But now, I wanna do it again. God, I'm so ready for some really hot sex but where do I get it now? I suppose I should wait to have a boyfriend. But I'm young and hot. I guess it would feel nice to have someone to adore me and to love. But--oh I don't know!Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2010): i think visualising a girl and masturbating is a good option.this releives your sexual tension.because by doing this you allow many hormones in your body to function properly.you dont need to have extra marital affairs which will spoil your marietal life.
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (4 January 2010):
 THE COMMENT IS ABOUT SEXUAL TENSION.
This: Sexual tension is the thing remind us that life is worthy to live. You should not think about how to relieve? You should think, how to manage this? Sexual tension is mentally felt and physically expressed in form of sexual organ.
Sex is play. In Indian sanskrit language play means LEELA. The game point of this play is to resist the desire of release through ejaculation. No, at once you will not found yourself quite comfortable, but through many many repetition you will learn the nature of pleasure. At a certain point you will see your victory. At one point this pleasure will be permanent nature of your entire life. You will find your self always 'ON' This is spiritual victory over your own body. Now, it is not your body that rule your mind, but it is your mind that rule your body. I appreciate the person who say I want more...I want all the time. It is intellectual wanting.
But resistance against the desire of ejaculation is our all time battle ground to fought, whether you found your self 'masturbating' or engaged in couple sex. Such is the secrecy of 'SPIRITUAL SEX'
Please feel free to contact me if more understanding on the subject is required.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI agree with all these solutions. And q106 said 'go where the day takes you'. Well, that's what I am doing now. Simply going with the flow. But the thing is, perhaps I'd rather not seem like any tramp. Maybe I'd like to be someone's full time lover.
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reader, bharat mehta +, writes (3 January 2010):
1'I sort of want a friend just to have sex with. Is that wrong?'
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Your second question is not really clear, or it is not even question. It is expression of your desire, that it is intense.
About first question. You want just some one to have sex only. Means friend for sex and not for relation. You can live this way, and I think, it is not a question to get such male, because there are many males who have such promiscuous tendency, but, such sexual activity will not give you any creative satisfaction. In relationship, sex can be creative. Both can learn lot of thing in and through relations. You are very young, but very soon you will loss your sex drive. Either your mind or your body will not work in tuning with each other. And, you will not be able to understand your own mood. These are, and still more negative results come out from promiscuous sex. Morality is not social matter, but spiritual matter, so you should decide goodness base on your long vision of life. This much I have to say on question no 1 but second question is not at all question, searching any answer.
Relationship is mutual dependency in sexual and spiritual matter, which is creative aspect of life.
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