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Advice for a recently ex-virgin please....

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Question - (3 January 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 3 January 2010)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

so i lost my varginity 2 days ago and after i didint feel anything but when i woke up my stomach felt achey and strange and i also bled for the next 2 days but that just stoped today but i still have a weird stomach ache. we used a condom so i couldent be pregnet but im just really scared.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010):

Your body is not ready for sex. In some countries when they get girls as young as you married off, it's called exploitation. There are laws against this sort of thing.

And, learning spellings may be better for you at the moment... you know, if those babies happen you may need to be a stay-at-home mom pretty soon.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2010):

You can become pregnant even if you use a condom. Condoms can leak, they can come off during withdrawal, they can tear, they have a failure rate.

If you intend to remain sexually active, go to Planned Parenthood and get on the birth control pill.

I also recommend that you confide in your mother that you are having sex...you may need her permission to get birth control. You also should get the Gardasil vaccine as having sex at a very young age puts you at a high risk for contracting the human papillova virus or HPV that can lead to cervical and anal cancers, which can be fatal. And guess what, condoms do not protect against HPV. The HPV virus is one of the most common human viruses there are, ther

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A male reader, Andy_2008 United Kingdom +, writes (3 January 2010):

You should be fine, but consider if you should keep doing it, I would wonder being so young.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (3 January 2010):

Since you are very young, your body probably wasn't quite ready for sex and could well be bruised inside.

It's going to have effects on you but you'll probably be fine after a week.

The reason you didn't feel anything is probably as you aren't used to doing all the other stuff so you haven't got used to using those feelings of being turned on.

We always advise people to stick to foreplay with their boyfriend until they are old enough to be legal and have sex.

Good Luck!! xx

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