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I dumped him on his Birthday, he wants me back, but can I trust him?

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Question - (3 January 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 6 January 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I liked my boyfriend alot but I felt like we grew apart so I dumped him on his B-day. I know that seems heartless but I liked another guy and if I didnt dump my bf on his B-day then I would be cheating. Well I did it as nice as I could but he said if he ever gets the chance he will make my life a living H***. Well then like 3 weeks later he said he wanted me back I missed him to and relized he was very good to me and I wanted it to work out. But I told him I had to think about so what Im wondering is he just saying that so he can make my life a living H*** like he said he would 3 weeks ago or does he really care about me? I dont know if I can trust him please HELP!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2010):

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Thanks everyone. Im with the guy now so thanks I guess time will tell if where meant to be.

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A female reader, chorn95 United Kingdom +, writes (4 January 2010):

I'm sure when he said he would make your life hell he was just thinking of a way to hurt you because of what you done to him. I wouldn't worry about it and if you feel like your meant to be, you should go for it because you only live once.

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (3 January 2010):

You two really aren't suited to each other. First of all, to dump him on his birthday was heartless, though it is better than cheating, (I was cheated on by my girlfriend in my birthday). But if you were willing to of that, then really he's not the guy for you. And he threatened you, so you're not the girl for him. Best to move on.

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